After years of struggling in the Bitcoin field and accumulating wealth and status, I realized that dating is a world of difference from venturing into the world of digital cryptocurrencies. However, after some exploration, I have summarized 10 effective dating tips for girls, hoping to inspire everyone.
1. Accurately locate the target circle
Don't cast a wide net, but accurately locate the circle that matches your interests and values. As a Bitcoin expert, I often appear at fintech seminars, high-end charity dinners, and private art salons. For example, at a fintech seminar, I met a girl who works in financial data analysis. Her keen insight into market trends impressed me. In such occasions, it is easy to meet like-minded women, laying a solid foundation for future dates.
2. Sincere opening, abandoning the halo
At the first encounter, let go of the halo of being a "Bitcoin expert" and show sincerity. Once, I met a girl engaged in public education at a charity dinner. I didn't talk about my wealth and achievements from the beginning, but sincerely asked her about her experiences and challenges in public education. I listened attentively, nodding occasionally to show understanding, making her feel my respect. This sincere opening quickly made her let go of her guard and start chatting with me.
3. Gain a deep understanding of interests and hobbies
After the initial communication, quickly delve into her interests and hobbies. For example, a girl I know has a passion for photography. After learning about this, I not only asked her about her favorite photography style and photographer, but also did her homework in advance to understand the relevant knowledge. When we communicate again, I can discuss with her the characteristics of different photography equipment and how to capture unique light and shadow moments. She was pleasantly surprised by my emphasis on her interests, which quickly heated up our relationship.
4. Carefully plan exclusive dates
Plan exclusive dates based on her interests and hobbies. I invited the girl who loves photography to a niche art park, where there are various uniquely styled buildings and creative spaces that are perfect for taking photos. I contacted some studios in the park in advance and arranged special shooting scenes. Throughout the entire dating process, she fully enjoyed the pleasure of taking photos, and we also exchanged photography skills together. This exclusive date left a deep impression on her.
5. Topic control during dating
When dating, topics should be diverse and in-depth. Don't just focus on your own field, but also guide her to share. For example, when I went on a date with a girl in the fashion industry, I not only shared the innovative stories in the Bitcoin world, but also listened attentively to her talk about the evolution of fashion trends and interesting experiences she encountered in her work. Through this approach, we can establish deeper resonance.
6. Pay attention to listening and responding
Listen wholeheartedly to her speech during the communication process. For example, on a date, the girl talked about the setbacks she encountered at work. I focused on her and handed her a tissue at the right time. After she finished speaking, I first expressed my understanding of her feelings, and then shared my coping strategies during the low point of Bitcoin investment, giving her some advice and encouragement. This kind of listening and response made her feel my care and support.
7. Show a humorous and witty side
Timely display of humor and wit can alleviate tense atmosphere and enhance relationships. While hiking with a girl who enjoys outdoor activities, I accidentally slipped on the way but didn't fall. I self mockingly said, 'It seems that this land is too hospitable and wants to keep me for a while longer.' She was amused by my humor, and the atmosphere suddenly became relaxed and happy. We were even happier during the hiking process.
8. Use body language to express concern
Appropriate body language can convey warmth and attention. When communicating, maintain eye contact and lean forward slightly to indicate that you are listening attentively. Once on a date at a restaurant, I maintained gentle eye contact with a girl and leaned slightly towards her, making her feel my attention and importance towards her.
9. Thoughtful small details add points
Pay attention to some thoughtful details to add points to your date. For example, on a date in cold weather, I will prepare a soft scarf in advance. When the girl arrived, I gently surrounded her and said, 'It's quite cold outside, don't get cold.' A small gesture could make her feel warmth and care.
10. Follow up and consolidate relationships
Timely and appropriate follow-up after a date is important. That night, I will send a message expressing that I had a great date today, such as' The time we spent together today was particularly wonderful, looking forward to the next time '. In the following days, based on the plans she mentioned during the date, such as her plan to watch a certain movie, I can ask her at an appropriate time if she has gone to watch it, how she feels, maintain communication, and strengthen the relationship.
Through these 10 tips, I have established deeper connections with girls on dates and become more adept at pursuing love. I hope these techniques can be helpful to everyone.